No matter what your affiliation (religious or otherwise) the part of humans that makes us special from anyone else in our known universe is that we have the power of choice… or free will. Do you realize how much power this gives you? Free will is so amazing and yet we get so caught up in destiny and fate that we forget completely about how we have a CHOICE in whatever it is we want to do. This is so powerful that even the highest of deities will not touch it. Think about this for a moment… if even GOD will not interfere with your right of choice, how can anyone else? Unless you allow them, that is. What does this have to do with getting a reading, you ask? It is very simple, allow me to explain: Let’s just say we come together and look at a situation where you would like for your lover to step up to the plate and make a deeper commitment. The energy around this seems very positive, and it seems as though he is headed in this direction. Now, mind you, this is should things keep progressing on the path they are currently traveling. Should you choose to derail that train by deciding that you are now comfortable with this reading enough to take matters into your own hands and speed it up because after all, if it is meant to be, it is going to happen no matter what, right? WRONG!!! You have now exercised your free will to call him every minute of the day and become overly clingy or involved in his business because you are preparing yourself for a deeper commitment. Now you have created a situation where he is reacting to this new attitude you have which he does not understand. This causes him to believe that you are not who you have been and that perhaps he has been manipulated this entire time and he decides that you are no longer who he wants to be with. Now, while it is easy to blame the messenger where this is concerned, if you decide you want to get to the truth of the matter, you have to look at where you have made changes in order to try and get what you want when you want it rather than looking at for what it is and letting it all play out the way the other person involved is comfortable with it as well. Just remember, there are consequences to your choices. Your choices are completely within your control, as are your reactions to other’s choices. By empowering yourself you can take charge of where you are headed. If he or she is not moving within a timeframe that works for you, then by all means, invoke your free will to move on! Just keep in mind, when asking others about what is going to happen, then it is what it is and make your choice from there… don’t get yourself into trouble by manipulating the situation to make things happen because then all you are asking for is a big heaping pile of karma!